Tuesday, April 8, 2014
ConversationPartner #3
Tien and I met again in the library today to talk about our spring break trips and various other topics. We had trouble finding a time to meet until today, so I was pleased when she finally told me she had time. She showed up a little late and seemed pretty stressed. She has a big debate tomorrow for school. The topic is gay marriage. It was interesting to hear her perspective on this topic and I found it strange for that topic to be chosen for debate in a classroom setting. She said she had to practice a ton more for it and only wanted to sleep. Tien had a fun spring break while visiting Los Angeles with her brother. She loved seeing the beach and enjoyed the nice weather. She said she wasn't allowed to swim because of the green stuff in the water. I discussed my adventures in New York and she asked a ton of questions. It was fun exchanging stories and talking about our experiences. I'm sure she loved getting to see the west coast. We talked about how busy our semesters are getting and how badly we want summer to come. The school work for both of us is starting to pile up. She talked about how she and her friends are trying to find a house to live in for next year. She is applying for a desk assistant job as well, so she was wondering how the interview process will go. I think she will do a great job and I gave her a few pointers that I have learned in the business school about interviews. I truly hope she gets the job. We began discussing food because of how hungry we both were. She said her home is now getting their first McDonalds. I was excited to hear that because I have always loved McDonalds. She said how it is such a huge deal when her home gets big chains like McDonalds and Starbucks. That was funny to me because here in America, you cannot drive 2 minutes without seeing one of those chains. No matter how stressed Tien is, she always makes our conversations welcoming and fluent. Our conversations drift to strange topics, but that's what makes it so interesting to me. She had forgot her TCU ID back in her room, so she had to go back and get it when we were finished. She doesn't like being on campus without any documentation. Tien is getting excited to graduate from IP and begin taking courses for her major. She said she sat in on a foundations in business class and she really enjoyed it. She is ready to start taking these classes that interest her instead of the IP classes. Tien said she has 27 transfer credit hours, which I was amazed by. I came in with only a few. She seems like she will be able to advance quickly into her new role at TCU. I am happy for her. She had to cut the meeting off to go prepare for the debate that she has tomorrow. I wished her luck. I then thought about what it would be like for me to debate in a different language than my first known language. I have participated in a formal debate and thought it was extremely challenging. I cannot imagine doing it in a foreign language. She impresses me every time I meet with her. We decided to set up our next meeting through text, so I will wait to hear from her regarding this. I would say it was another successful meeting.
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It's funny that you talked about gay marriage because that topic somehow came up in my conversation with my conversation partner, Harrison, today. I'm honestly not sure how we got on the subject but I think it started with a Chinese pop star who he thought looked like a girl. It was interesting to talk about that with him, although he's never one to take a strong stance on political issue to avoid offending anyone. I found it interesting that he hadn't really thought about it much because in China it is not such a hot topic for debate. It's strange how the place you are from completely shapes your views on something and can even change whether or not it is viewed as something important or not thought about at all.
ReplyDeleteMac, it sounds like you and your conversation partner have developed a wonderful relationship. It seems like you really are able to have productive exchanges, rather than one person or the other talking the entire time. Tien sounds so great! It's awesome that you could give her some interview pointers; I'm sure that really means a lot to her. I'm so happy to see that other people have enjoyed their conversation partners as well, because my partner Bayan and I have really liked getting to know each other. Like you, our conversations tend to jump around to lots of really random topics, but that's what I love about them. I never know what could come up in the hour or so that we spend talking, and it keeps it endlessly interesting. Another thing that you seem to enjoy as much as I do is comparing the different cultures. I love hearing about life back in her home country of Saudi Arabia, and thinking about how it compares to life here. It's amazing that things are so different, but I feel really lucky to have been able to learn about another culture. It's nice that she has other family in the United States. Bayan is in a similar situation. She has a brother here in Fort Worth with her, and a sister up north. It was great reading about your experience with Tien, and I'm glad you learned so much from it!
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